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Why Viewings are Important

Sat, 11 Jul 2026 14:57:49 GMT

Understanding the Purpose and Benefits of a Funeral Viewing

When making arrangements for a loved one's funeral, one of the decisions you'll be asked to make is whether to include a viewing. If you've never planned funeral services before, you may be unfamiliar with what a viewing involves or how it can benefit family and friends. Understanding its purpose can help you make the choice that best honors your loved one and supports those who are grieving.

What Is a Funeral Viewing?

A funeral viewing is typically held the day or evening before the funeral service. It provides an opportunity for family and friends to gather in a more relaxed setting before the formal service takes place. Unlike the funeral itself, a viewing is generally less structured, allowing guests to arrive and leave during scheduled hours rather than at a specific start time.

Viewings are most often held at a funeral home or church, although they may also take place in another meaningful location. Some families choose to offer light refreshments, creating a comfortable environment where loved ones can visit, share memories, and support one another.

During the viewing, the deceased is often present in an open casket, giving those who wish the opportunity to pay their respects, spend a quiet moment in reflection, or say a final goodbye. Family members are also able to receive condolences from friends and relatives, providing comfort during an emotionally difficult time.

Helps Loved Ones Accept the Reality of the Loss

Every family grieves differently, but a viewing can provide several meaningful benefits that help ease the journey through loss. The death of someone we love can be difficult to process. While we may understand intellectually that they have passed away, our emotions often need more time to catch up. Seeing a loved one, one final time can help make the loss feel more real, allowing family and friends to begin accepting what has happened and take the first steps toward healing.

Provides an Opportunity for Closure

For many people, saying goodbye in person offers a sense of peace that cannot be found in any other way. Whether through a silent prayer, a moment of reflection, or simply being present, a viewing gives loved ones the chance to express emotions that may have gone unspoken. This final farewell can be an important part of finding closure.

Brings Family and Friends Together

Grief can feel overwhelming, but it is often made more manageable when shared with others. A viewing brings together the people who knew and loved the deceased, creating an opportunity to exchange stories, offer comfort, and lean on one another for support. Being surrounded by others who are experiencing the same loss can provide reassurance and remind everyone that they do not have to grieve alone.

A Meaningful Step in the Healing Process

A funeral viewing is about more than seeing a loved one, one final time. It is an opportunity to celebrate a life, honor cherished memories, and find strength through the support of family and friends. Whether you choose to hold a viewing at one of Ziegenhein's two funeral home locations, at a church, or another meaningful venue, it can provide a comforting space for loved ones to gather, say goodbye, and begin the healing process together.

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How to Say the Right Thing at a Funeral

Thu, 25 Jun 2026 16:37:49 GMT

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When attending a funeral, it’s natural to worry about saying the wrong thing. Most people do.

The good news is that you don’t need to find the perfect words. No single sentence can take away someone’s grief, and no one expects you to make everything better.

Instead, keep a few simple principles in mind.

Your presence matters.
Simply showing up can be one of the most meaningful gestures you offer. Being there demonstrates your support and care in a way words often cannot.

Keep your words simple.
A heartfelt “I’m sorry for your loss” is often enough. Sincerity matters more than eloquence.

Share a memory.
If you have a brief story or fond memory of the person who passed away, consider sharing it. Hearing how their loved one touched the lives of others can bring comfort during a difficult time.

Use their name.
Don’t be afraid to mention the deceased by name. Comments such as, “Mary always made me laugh,” or “Your mother made the best chocolate chip cookies,” help keep cherished memories alive and remind grieving families of the impact their loved one had on others.

Avoid clichés and assumptions.
Try not to tell people how they should feel or what they should take comfort in. Statements such as “They’re in a better place,” “At least their suffering is over,” or “You should be grateful for the time you had” may not reflect what the person is experiencing.

The truth is, we can’t know exactly how a spouse, parent, child, sibling, or friend feels in that moment. A simple expression of sympathy is often far more meaningful.

Allow them to share their feelings.
If they choose to talk about their grief, listen without judgment or interruption. A nod, kind word, or hug can speak volumes.

Remember the importance of listening.
Listen to understand, not just to respond. Listen to show compassion, not to offer solutions. Listen with patience and care, even if you’ve heard the story before. Sometimes, being heard is one of the greatest gifts you can give.

Celebrating Life Without Religion

Sat, 13 Jun 2026 16:42:40 GMT

Celebrating Life Without Religion

At Ziegenhein Funeral Homes, we believe that every life deserves to be honored with dignity, love, and meaning—no matter a person’s faith, background, or beliefs. While many families turn to religious traditions in times of loss, others find comfort in something different: a personalized, non-religious celebration that reflects the unique personality, values, and story of their loved one.

For those who consider themselves non-religious, spiritual-but-not-religious, or unaffiliated with a church, the idea of a traditional funeral may feel unfamiliar or even uncomfortable. At Ziegenhein, we’re here to meet you where you are, without expectation, and without judgment. Whether you're looking for something completely secular or something spiritual without being tied to any doctrine, we help you create a farewell that feels authentic, comforting, and true.

You're Not Alone

Today, more people than ever identify as non-religious or unaffiliated with a formal faith community. Some people still feel a deep sense of meaning, connection, or spirituality, just not in a religious way.

At Ziegenhein Funeral Homes, we serve families across this broad spectrum. What they all share is a desire to honor someone they loved in a way that’s personal, heartfelt, and respectful of who that person was.

What Does a Non-Religious Funeral or Memorial Look Like?

There’s no one right way to say goodbye. Instead of following rituals or prayers tied to a specific faith, a non-religious service might include:

Personal stories and memories
Favorite music—Any genre that you feel is most fitting for your loved one
Photos, videos, or creative displays
A trusted friend or professional celebrant to guide the service

Some families choose to call this a “celebration of life”, while others prefer the simplicity of a quiet gathering. Whether you want to laugh, cry, share memories, or just be together, our team helps create the kind of atmosphere that feels right for you.

Writing the Story of a Life

At the heart of every service is the life being remembered. Who was your loved one? What did they love, believe, care about? What made them laugh? What kind of legacy did they leave?

Our team helps you bring those answers to life. We can help craft a eulogy or tribute that’s heartfelt and honest, assist in selecting music or readings that reflect their personality, or design a memorial space that tells their story through photographs, favorite objects, or meaningful symbols.

This isn’t about following a script; it’s about creating something real and memorable.

Personalized Spaces and Memorials

You can choose a traditional setting, a casual one, or even hold your gathering in an unconventional space. Indoor spaces with room for music, memory tables, and personalized displays

Outdoor spaces for informal gatherings or quiet reflection
Reception areas for coffee, food, and conversation
Custom keepsakes, tribute videos

We’ve helped families design memorials that feel more like a backyard celebration, a family reunion, or even a quiet dinner with close friends. Whatever the tone—formal, relaxed, joyful, or reflective; we help make it happen.

No Pressure. Just Support.

Sometimes families feel unsure about what kind of service to plan, especially if the person who died didn’t talk about their wishes. Others worry about making it “good enough” or doing the “right thing.”

At Ziegenhein Funeral Homes, our first goal is care and compassion for the families who walk into our doors. There’s no pressure to do things a certain way. We’re here to help you explore your options and create something that fits your needs, your values, and your story.

We know that grief is deeply personal. The way you honor a loved one should be, too.

Serving All Beliefs and Backgrounds

Whether you're religious, spiritual, agnostic, atheist, or just not sure, we’re here for you. Our team is experienced in serving a wide range of traditions—and just as importantly, we’re deeply respectful of people who don’t follow any tradition at all.

You don’t need to explain or justify your beliefs. You don’t need to have a plan figured out. You just need someone you can trust to walk alongside you, offer guidance, and help you create something meaningful.

Because Every Life Matters

At Ziegenhein Funeral Homes, we believe that how we remember someone should reflect who they truly were. That belief extends to every family we serve, regardless of faith or background.

Whether you’re planning a non-religious funeral, a celebration of life, or simply want to explore your options, we’re here with open hearts and open minds. Together, we can create a farewell that feels honest, personal, and full of love.

Cremation VS Burial

Thu, 28 May 2026 14:27:27 GMT

Which Option Is Right for Your Family?

One of the most common questions families ask when planning funeral services is whether burial or cremation is the right choice for their loved one. This decision is deeply personal and may be influenced by cultural, religious, financial, and emotional factors. At Ziegenhein Funeral Homes, we understand the importance of this choice and are committed to helping families make informed decisions that honor their loved ones with dignity and respect.

Understanding Cremation Services

Cremation has become an increasingly popular option because of its flexibility and affordability. Families may choose immediate cremation or plan a memorial service at a later date, allowing additional time to organize meaningful tributes and gatherings.

Types of Cremation Services

Cremation services can be personalized in several ways:

Direct Cremation: A simple cremation without a formal service.
Cremation with a Memorial Service or Celebration of Life: Families may hold a service or gathering before or after the cremation to honor their loved one. These services often include photographs, keepsakes, or an urn display.
Cremation with Visitation and Funeral Service: Similar to a traditional burial service, this option includes a visitation with the casket present, a funeral service, cremation following the services, and final placement of the cremated remains at a cemetery.

Cremation allows families greater flexibility in choosing how and when they gather to celebrate a life well lived.

Factors to Consider When Choosing Between Burial and Cremation

When deciding between burial and cremation, families should carefully consider several important factors:

Personal or Religious Beliefs: Some faith traditions have specific preferences or guidelines regarding burial or cremation.
Budget and Cost Considerations: Burial generally involves higher upfront costs due to caskets, cemetery plots, and headstones, while cremation may provide a more cost-effective option.
Family Traditions: Long-standing family customs or the presence of a family burial plot may influence the decision.
Environmental Concerns: In certain situations, cremation may be viewed as a more environmentally conscious choice.

At Ziegenhein Funeral Homes, our experienced funeral directors provide transparent information about each option and help families understand the financial and practical aspects of their decision.

Personalizing Your Loved One’s Farewell

Both burial and cremation offer opportunities for meaningful personalization. Families may choose to include:

Favorite music, readings, or poems
Custom caskets or urns
Special tributes or memorial displays
Religious or cultural rituals

By incorporating personal touches, families can create a farewell that reflects the unique life and personality of their loved one. At Ziegenhein Funeral Homes, we work closely with families to design services that are heartfelt, memorable, and respectful.

There Is No Wrong Choice

Ultimately, the right choice is the one that honors your loved one’s wishes and brings comfort to family and friends. Both burial and cremation are meaningful ways to celebrate a life. Our funeral directors are here to guide families through every step of the process, offering advice, support, and compassion without pressure.

We are dedicated to helping families make decisions that align with their values, traditions, and personal preferences.

Whether you choose a traditional burial or a flexible cremation service, Ziegenhein Funeral Homes is committed to providing the support, guidance, and care your family needs during this difficult time.

Common Funeral Myths

Sat, 16 May 2026 14:40:51 GMT

Common Funeral Myths (and the Truth Behind Them)

When families begin making funeral arrangements, they often come in with a lot of questions—and understandably so. There are many misconceptions about funeral services that have been passed around for years. We believe part of our role is helping families understand their options and feel comfortable with the decisions they make.

Here are a few of the most common funeral myths we hear and the truth behind them.

Myth #1: Embalming is always required

One of the biggest misunderstandings is that funeral homes automatically embalm every person in their care. In reality, embalming is not required in every situation. Whether it is needed depends on several factors, including the type of service being planned, the timing, and state regulations.

When meeting with a family, funeral directors will discuss the arrangements and explain what options are available. From there, recommendations can be made based on the services the family chooses.

Myth #2: Cremation means you can’t have a funeral service

Many people assume that choosing cremation eliminates the opportunity for a meaningful service, but that simply isn’t true. Families who select cremation still have many options when it comes to honoring their loved one.

Some choose to have a traditional visitation and funeral before cremation takes place, while others prefer a memorial service or celebration of life afterward. Cremation and funeral services can work together to create a personal and meaningful tribute.

Myth #3: Every funeral looks the same

Funeral services today are far more personalized than they once were. While traditional services are still important to many families, there is no single format that everyone must follow.

Services can be religious or non-religious, formal or relaxed, simple or elaborate. Families often include personal touches that reflect their loved one’s hobbies, personality, values, and life story.

Myth #4: Every decision has to be made immediately

After a loss, families can feel pressure to make many important decisions quickly. While there are a few arrangements that do require timely attention, not everything needs to be decided all at once.

Every family moves through the process differently. Some are ready to discuss service details right away, while others need time to gather their thoughts before making plans. Funeral directors are there to guide families through the process, explain available options, and help them make decisions at a pace that feels manageable.

Myth #5: Pre-planning is only for older adults

Pre-planning funeral arrangements is not limited to seniors. People of all ages choose to plan ahead for many different reasons.

Unexpected situations can happen at any stage of life, and pre-planning can help reduce stress and uncertainty for loved ones in the future. It also allows individuals to document their wishes and make thoughtful decisions in advance, giving families added peace of mind when the time comes.

Personalizing a Funeral Service

Thu, 22 Jan 2026 18:54:06 GMT

Every person is unique, so the services that reflect and celebrate their life should be unique, too.

Personalizing a Service

While we share some ideas for personalization here on our website, allow us to share some more in-depth descriptions of what your options might look like. Whether you are planning services for a loved one or planning for your own future , our team at Ziegenhein are happy to coordinate with you to truly make a service one of a kind.

There are many ways that a funeral service can be personalized, and many of those customizations can be discussed in the arrangement room. When it comes to writing an obituary, capturing someone’s life in written text may seem daunting, but including key memories and notable quotes can easily bring that unique personality and life to mind. Even if you are not participating in the writing of the main text, we encourage sharing memories alongside your condolences on the obituary page .

When planning the service itself, talk with your funeral director to help plan ways to incorporate a variety of ways to honor the decedent, their beliefs, and their accomplishments. Share religious or spiritual preferences, veteran status, fraternal organizations, or the importance of the decedent's career. There are many options for military honors, both at the service and at the cemetery, and, akin but distinct, there are multiple service careers that have a funeral honor guard to thank the decedent for their dedication to their career or cause.

Other thoughtful personalization options can be as simple as sharing photographs, a slideshow or video, or setting out meaningful mementos or trinkets. Music choice is also an effective and uncomplicated way to bring a custom atmosphere to the service, especially since so much music can be linked to the making of memories. Whether you want to put together a playlist of prerecorded songs or hope to have live musicians performing as a tribute, we encourage you to talk with your arranging funeral director about music choices that might reflect memories or represent attitudes and attributes of the decedent appropriately.

Regardless of the type of service that you may be planning, now more than ever in the past, there are myriad opportunities to express the individual personality and impact of one’s life. The sky is the limit, and our funeral directors are eager to help plan a meaningful and memorable service!

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Why Viewings are Important

Understanding the Purpose and Benefits of a Funeral Viewing

What Is a Funeral Viewing?

Helps Loved Ones Accept the Reality of the Loss

Provides an Opportunity for Closure

Brings Family and Friends Together

A Meaningful Step in the Healing Process

How to Say the Right Thing at a Funeral

Celebrating Life Without Religion

Celebrating Life Without Religion

Cremation VS Burial

Which Option Is Right for Your Family?

Understanding Cremation Services

Types of Cremation Services

Factors to Consider When Choosing Between Burial and Cremation

Personalizing Your Loved One’s Farewell

There Is No Wrong Choice

Common Funeral Myths

Common Funeral Myths (and the Truth Behind Them)

Myth #1: Embalming is always required

Myth #2: Cremation means you can’t have a funeral service

Myth #3: Every funeral looks the same

Myth #4: Every decision has to be made immediately

﻿ Myth #5: Pre-planning is only for older adults

Personalizing a Funeral Service

Every person is unique, so the services that reflect and celebrate their life should be unique, too.

Myth #5: Pre-planning is only for older adults